Survey: Do you consider that us as women are losing our femininity for favour of been strong & independent..?

That's an excellent question there Melia my darlin! xxx Well I am exceptionally cynical as far as love is concerned, but at the same time am a complete hopeless romantic case who wants the happy ending! I think (for me personally) that a lot of my "yeah.. and" attitude comes from trying to protect myself from further hurt, because I've been through the shredder a bit in my life, and that has made me strong and y, but at the same time has destroyed a lot of my faith in relationships. The people who are dear to me (yes that includes the lanky one) know the real me, because I'm not as tough as I make out I am, and will only show that side of me in a relationship when I trust that person implicitly. With some words from the song by Stiff Little Fingers..Happy Yesterday.. "Although I'm sneering all the time.. I'm dying inside".. that just sums me up really... Strong is good, but not to the point where you're just kidding yourself! xxxx (((hugs))) hon xxxxx